3 Reasons Why People Get Upset With Your Boundaries.

Setting boundaries can sometimes result in people feeling upset or uncomfortable. Here are three main reasons why people may become upset with your boundaries.

1️⃣ They have been walking all over you.
Now you're standing up for yourself and protecting your time and energy, and they don't like it. They have likely decided what your boundaries are and how you should spend your assets (time, money, energy, health, love) and no they're miffed that you are taking back control.

2️⃣ Your boundaries don't suit their agenda.
Simply put, you saying no doesn't suit them and what they want from you. Time to part ways, or put even firmer boundaries up.

3️⃣ They have no boundaries of their own.
Not only this, but they have an expectation that you should also have none. Because I don't, you don't 🤷🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️. 

*If that's your leader...run a mile or buckle up as it's going to be a bumpy ride.

Learn to love boundaries.

Become aware of those around you who tick one or more of the boxes above.

Boundaries are a fantastic method of protecting your assets. 

Remember 2 things.

1. For everything you are saying yes to, what is it you're saying no to?
2. If you don't set your own boundaries. Someone else will do that for you.